Homework Hints

You've picked out a desk for your children.  Now, the problem is getting them to use it!  The following tips will help instill good work habits in your kids so they get the most out of their new desk.

Provide a quiet, well-lit place for your child to do homework. If possible, place the desk in a quiet spot where there are limited distractions so your child can easily concentrate.  Make sure the lighting is adequate.  If the overhead lighting is too dim, add a lamp that is safe and easy to operate. 

Have all homework materials handy. Try to think of everything your child may need to do homework.  Stock the desk with plenty of pencils, pens, markers, crayons and paper.   Have other items like a ruler a calculator within reach

Work on time management. Establishing a regular time for homework can save arguments.  After a school snack and before playtime might work best.  Remember each child is different, so you may have to negotiate timing to get the most out of it.  Kids crave routine and a consistent homework time can keep them up to date or even ahead in school!

Be positive about homework. Stress to your child that success comes from having a positive attitude. Be positive about any progress your child is making. You should never use homework as a punishment.

Watch for signs of frustration. If your child becomes easily distracted or avoids a subject or a particular assignment, it may be a sign of frustration. Ask if you can help and encourage your child to ask questions.  Children may need short breaks from their studies to refresh themselves. 

Provide guidance - NOT the answers. When your child asks a question, help them figure out the answer.  If they still don't understand, try a different approach.  This can be frustrating for the parent, but children need to think things through on their own.  When they realize that with a little work they can solve a problem, it will help them be successful.

Don't compare one child with another. If your child is having trouble with a subject that is easy for a sibling or friend, never compare them to each other. Comparisons hurt self-esteem and can create rivalry, bad feelings, and worsen performance. Every child is different, and will have different strengths. Look at each childs ability and how they are progressing.

Reward progress. Recognition and positive reinforcement does wonders for a child.  The reward can be as simple as a pat on the back or a special treat.  For extra-special accomplishments or large strides in progress, you could reward your child with an outing, or a gift.

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